Best way to Introduce Sex Toys into your relationship
Updated: Jul 18
Whipping out a dildo in the heat of the moment, not quite!
Dirty talk, naughty games, foreplay, Personal Lube or even better CBD lube, there are plenty of ways to make hot sex even hotter! If you want to spice up your sex life then introducing sex toys might be something to consider. The difficult part however is bringing up your naughty desire to your sexual partner which can be a little awkward if you haven't experimented before. You might be scared about bruising your partner’s ego or you might also be nervous about expressing your sexual needs or generally embarrassed about having a curiosity that is a bit outside your usual bedroom repertoire.
If you have already used a Sex Toy with your partner then you know that there is only one outcome which is a way better and bigger orgasms. If you have incorporated Sex Toys into your solo sex play then you can probably deduce that couples play with sex toy equals mind blowing! But if you have never used sex toys before then the idea can be rather intimidating to say the least. Maybe you are worried about offending your partner or that they will not be into it as much as you, or you think that the adult toy you want to try just feels a little taboo to risqué.
Whatever the reason, you do not need to worry about getting an adult sex toy. The sex toy will not replace your partner or be better than your partner as there is no replacement for live, human contact. Sex toys are all about enhancement and improvement of Sexual Pleasure and sex. The purpose of sex toys is to increase the connection and sexual pleasure and add to the experience, not detract from it. Bottom line – Sex Toys are sexual enhancements, just like chocolate sauce on ice cream.
To introduce Sex Toys into your relationship start with some basic tools such as Candles, lubricant, massage oils, erotic books or a romantic game. Once you get used to using these, it can create the mood and make it easier to introduce adult toys.
So you are now on the same page as your partner? Great, now Get in the mood! Next up – Purchasing your Sex Toy. Online Shopping is the best option as it is safe and comfortable. At MoodTime we offer one of the best online shopping experiences for adult products and sex toys in South Africa. The benefit is that we are available 7 days a week and will answer any and all questions you might have about a particular product, Contact Us Anytime. WhatsApp is the best for quick reply! The benefit of online shopping is also that you can do it right from home— in your undies, lingerie or even naked if that works for you!
We offer a huge selection of adult toys, Sexual Stimulants and other Adult Related Goodies AND if we do not have something just Contact Us and we will get it for you. In the mood top tip: Add some Personal Lube to your online shopping basket, to make your first time using your toy even better. We have some great water based lube to try standard or CBD Infused. We also have a great silicone based lube but just remember that silicone-based lubes can degrade the integrity of silicone and jelly based toys.